the very idea that stone fems “don’t reciprocate” implies there is nothing valuable in allowing another full access to your body as an expression of desire for them. that there is no reciprocity in holding another in all their vulnerability against you and within you. that there is no generosity in reflecting the desire of another, who is often denied the right to feel it. the problem is you look at us and see only how it works in relation to yourselves. stone butches and stone fems see how it works always in relation to each other.